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Erase and rewind

Ne aflam la cumpana dintre ani, o perioada frumoasa a anului ce ma indeamna sa  ma bucur de fiecare realizare a mea. Ma simt binecuvantata  sa stiu ca, prin intermediul blogului, descopar oameni noi, oameni minunati care imi citesc randurile si care ma inspira, fara macar a-i cunoaste. Dar gandul ca ii simt prezenti, implicati in ceea ce eu realizez imi ofera incredere si  un acut sentiment de multumire.

La randul lor, colectiile Gramaldy (www.catalinagrama.com/shop/) mi-au oferit posibilitatea de a exprima pasiunea pentru bijuteriile ce spun o poveste, bijuterii ce ne indeamna sa ne daruim mai des unii altora momente pretioase.  Cu fiecare colectie capsula, ma redescopeream prin ochii celei care imi purta bijuteriile. Asa am invatat sa celebrez fiecare moment al vietii mele.

Mi-am propus ca anul ce vine sa fiu mai productiva, mai fericita, si sa  renunt la planuri. Astazi, poate mai mult ca oricand, vad viata asemenea unei calatorii, si imi doresc sa ma bucur de parcursul ei, si mai putin de destinatia finala.

Stiu ca va trebui sa ma obisnuiesc cu gandul ca visurile si  idealurile mele nu se indeplinesc neaparat chiar in momentul pe care mi-l imaginez  si  ma simt impacata cu asta. Acum descopar ca multumita perioadelor de asteptare, am devenit ceea ce sunt astazi, iar acest proces a fost unul mai pretios decat scopul in sine.

De aceea in  anul ce vine imi propun sa ma redescopar si sa renunt la cateva idei care simt ca ne stau in cale noua, tuturor:

1. Nu trebuie sa fortam lucrurile sa se intample. Daca trebuie sa se intample se vor intampla oricum, cu siguranta.

2. Nu trebuie sa incercam sa fim totul pentru ceilalti. Am mai spus-o si chiar cred in asta, “eu sunt cel mai important om din viata mea” e cel mai important gand pentru iubirea de sine. Daca te iubesti suficient pe tine vei reusi cumva sa ii faci fericiti si pe ceilalti.

3. Sa planuim mereu totul nu e intotdeauna cea mai buna solutie. Cred cu putere ca cea mai frumoasa rasplata este intotdeauna calatoria si nu destinatia. Asadar, sa ne bucuram mereu de ea.

4. Trebuie sa renuntam sa credem ca viata noastra ne scapa de sub control uneori si trebuie sa intelegem ca ne aflam mereu in punctul in care trebuie sa ne aflam pentru a merge mai departe.

5. Nu trebuie sa stim sau sa intelegem intotdeauna despre ce este vorba. Oricum nu vom afla toate raspunsurile asa cum ne imaginam. Mai degraba trebuie sa imbratisam viata asa cum vine ea, si sa avem incredere in parcursul ei.

6. Nu trebuie sa ne impotmolim si sa avem o parere proasta despre felul in care aratam. Trebuie mai degraba sa avem grija sa fim sanatosi si sa intelegem ca fiecare dintre noi este unic, iar frumusetea se afla de cele mai multe ori in ochii privitorului. Asadar, am putea sa incepem sa ne privim cu alti ochi.

7. Trebuie sa intelegem ca uneori lucrurile care nu se intampla fac parte dintr-un plan mai mare. O usa care se inchide o poate deschide de cele mai multe ori pe alta. Viata e frumoasa, nu e numai o lupta continua si chiar trebuie sa avem incredere in ea.

Lasati lucrurile sa se intample! Sa aveti un 2016 minunat!

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We are so close to the end of the year, a beautiful period that urges me to be glad of every achievement I’ve made. I feel blessed to know that via my blog I discover new people, wonderful people who read my articles and who inspire me, without even knowing them. But the thought that I feel you guys present and involved in what I realize gives me confidence and a keen sense of contentment.

At their turn the Gramaldy jewels collections (www.catalinagrama.com/shop)  gave me the opportunity to express my passion for jewelry what tells you a story, jewelry that gives us urges to offer more often to each other precious moments.  With each capsule collection, I rediscovered myself through the eyes of the person that wear my jewelry. So I learned again to celebrate every moment of my life.

I thought that for the upcoming year to be more productive, more happy, and to give up any plans. Today, perhaps more than ever, I see life more as a  travel, and I am enjoying the course of it more than the final destinations.

I know that I will have to get used to the thought that my dreams and ideals do not come true necessarily whenever I imagine and I feel reconciled with it. Now discover that thanks to the periods of waiting I became what I am today and this process was one more precious than the goal itself.

That’s why in the coming year I intend to rediscover  myself and to give up  a few ideas which I feel they always stand in our way :

1. You must not force things to happen. If they must happen they will happen anyway, definitely.

2. We should not try to be everything for the others. I ‘ve always said it and really believe in it, ‘ I’m the most important person in my life ‘ s most important thought for self-love. If you love yourself enough you will be able somehow to make happy the other you love too.

3.  Planning always everything it’s not always the best solution. I firmly believe that the most beautiful reward is always the journey and not the destination. Therefore, always enjoy it.

4. We must refuse to believe that our lives wsometimes get out of control and we must realize that we are always in the point in which we must be in order to move forward.

5.  You don’t have to know or understand what it is about always. However we will not find all the answers as we imagine. Rather we must embrace life as it comes, and we must have confidence in the course of it.

6. We don’t have to stumble have and have a bad opinion about the way we look. We must be rather careful to be healthy and to understand that each and one of us is unique, and that most of the times beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. So, we could begin for once to look at ourselves with different eyes.

7. 7. We must realize that sometimes things that never happen are part of a larger plan. A door that closes opens another one more often than we realize. Life is beautiful, there’s not only a continuously fight cand you really have to have confidence in it.

Let it go and let be! I wish you all a wonderful 2016!